Lily : Why do you fear falling in love so much, Angad?
Angad : My dear, it is not that I fear falling in love. What I do fear, however, is falling so deeply in love with someone and investing my life into theirs only to discover that they do not feel the same about me. Or that they too love me, but are too afraid that their parents won't agree for their union with me, or their friends won't approve of us, or that they are too afraid as to what others might say. To me, that is how you die while still breathing and you can never recover from that no matter how hard you try. The scariest part about that is that we never know if we're falling for the wrong person. That's what I am afraid of.
I quite agree with what you said, all girls are like this, firstly they are like "Oh baby! I love you so very much" and then when guy is deep shit in love with them, then they fucking melodramatic, "my parents won't agree for us", or "my friends think you're not right for me", and the best one they come with is "log kya kahenge?" and "khandaan ka naam duba dun kya?"
ReplyDeleteFucking liars!
hii sir,
Deletefirst of all i quite disagree with your usage of the phrase "all girls".Its like if a guy rapes a girl and the newspaper prints it as "all guys are rapists".
Secondly, relationships and love are much more than the reasons you jotted down above.
Thank you!
Lots of love
I am not the one giving the reasons, you girls give these reasons at point or the other. anyway, no point arguing with you, as you clearly are a feminist who will gladly butcher a guy on the name of feminism and then say he was a guy after all and all men are same.
DeleteAlso, stop using lots of love like Angad, when he says it, it's natural, and your lots of love is laced with sarcasm and hatred.
Kshitij, all I would like to say is, if you're disappointed because of a girl, don't blame them all, coz in doing so you're telling more about your thinking and less about girls. I know you share Angad's pain and you're worried for him but that doesn't mean you'll go on hating every other girl. For God's sake, you have a girlfriend and I am sure you wouldn't want her to read all this.
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ReplyDeleteTrue feeling expressed here and is true somehow..
ReplyDeleteU hav truly said....Angad bcoz I have seen a couple who break up coz they thought that their parents won't agree for their marriage without even trying.....I think only courageous ppl should fall in love bcoz atleast they wud do each n every effort to b with each other.
ReplyDeleteI feel when there is love around the actual love nobody bothers about anyone. And that situation takes place that means it wasn't love ever
ReplyDeleteAnd at last I have featured in one of your blogs, I hoped it would have been a happy one, and situation in which you would have written this would have been different. More than happy for being featuring in your blog, I am sad for the pain you're going through.
ReplyDeleteAnd I must say, a very well written article, worthy of your penmanship. I am proud of you.